Although she is quite tolerant, giving and forgiving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), Frances Scully has a definite sense of fairness, balance and correct proportions, which prevent Frances from being completely happy in an exclusively benevolent role. Frances Scully really wants equal and reciprocal relationships - not ones that involve being someone else's servant or caregiver. However, Frances Scully needs to learn how to assert what she wants and needs, for she tends to "go with the flow" or simply wait for her needs to be met. Consequently, she may feel that she is never able to achieve equality in relationships and ends up being taken advantage of. Moreover, Frances should avoid the tendency to be evasive, indirect, and afraid to confront unpleasant issues. The honest and open relationships Scully seeks cannot be achieved if she is hiding something!
Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Frances Scully instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Frances does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Scully since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Scully will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Frances Scully, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Frances Scully invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Frances Scully seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Scully perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Frances Scully appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Frances Scully fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Frances. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Frances Scully also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Scully dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.
Frances Scully craves intense experiences and is attracted to aspects of life that are strange, unfathomable, or taboo. She may hide her interests or inclinations, except from those who know Frances very intimately. Frances Scully is rarely content with herself and her life, and she has an inner urge to be continually going farther or deeper than her ever have before. Frances has also a strong interest in social power and the role that money and economics play in people's lives.
If she follows her true nature, her life is apt to be unconventional, unusual, controversial and full of insecurity and excitement. Frances Scully cannot and will not be forced into a pre-set mold, and Frances finds it difficult to conform. Her offbeat interests and tastes lead Scully to ventures that others may consider too "far-out" or experimental. Frances Scully has a very creative, inventive streak.
She is intensely willful, zealous, and fanatical though Frances often hides the intensity of her feelings and her personal motives and desires. Scully is infatuated with power and has an almost compulsive desire for personal recognition and the desire to be "somebody". Frances Scully tends to worship heroes who have powerful personal magnetism and charisma and often seeks to emulate them. Frances Scully both fears, and is intensely fascinated with, death and the hidden, secret, dark side of life.
Frances Scully has a pleasant and dreamy disposition with considerable romantic imagination. Frances has a strong longing for love, but she does not see others very clearly and may experience many disappointments in her emotional relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Pisces and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 8th house
Sun Opposition Uranus
Sun Square Pluto
Sun Conjunct Venus/Neptune