Evan Dando
in Relationships

Open and generous, Evan Dando enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Dando rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Evan always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Evan Dando often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Dando, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Evan Dando to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Evan's aspirations and ideals. Evan Dando also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Evan Dando has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Dando also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Evan, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Dando is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Evan Dando needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.

Although Dando gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Evan Dando to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Evan Dando often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Dando actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Evan Dando to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Evan Dando becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Dando can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Evan's emotional life seems to be overly intense and his sexuality is very strong. Evan Dando is likely to make many demands of his partner and he has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love him.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Evan Dando enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Evan wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Evan Dando very happy. Evan wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Evan Dando may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Dando is a natural host or diplomat.

Evan Dando has artistic interests and may be attracted to people who are artists, are connected with artistic endeavors or interested in art. He is very sociable and feel more at home in beautiful surroundings.

His nature is harmonious and Evan radiates happiness so that everyone around him will be in good spirits. His taste is likely to be elegant and he has a strong desire to surround himself with beauty. Evan Dando may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Evan Dando has a need to mix with people expressing the same feelings and having the same interests that he has. Evan shares his artistic concerns with others and is likely to join groups or associations that deal with art in some way.

Evan Dando has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find himself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Dando could become quite obsessed by someone and he has a tendency to control and manipulate his relationships.

Evan tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When Evan Dando loves someone, he loves with his whole heart and is inclined to reveal his most inner and private feelings.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 6th house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Venus/Pluto

Venus in Aries

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/N. Node

Venus Opposition Moon/Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Mercury/N. Node

Venus Opposition Mars/Pluto

Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC