Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Bijou Phillips is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Bijou Phillips is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.
Bijou has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Bijou Phillips may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Phillips' ties to her mother are very strong and Bijou also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.
Phillips is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and she enjoys sharing this kind of energy with her friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to her. In fact, Bijou Phillips needs to do these things - otherwise she gets crabby.
Although Bijou Phillips was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Bijou's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Bijou Phillips tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Bijou to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Bijou Phillips may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Bijou Phillips seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Bijou has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Phillips can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
She is highly sensitive to everyone around her and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Bijou Phillips has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Phillips to keep her expectations a bit lower.
Her emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. She may have a sudden desire to liberate herself from the stress and may release her tension towards women. Bijou Phillips could also feel lonely and depressed at times.
In love relationships, Bijou Phillips is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Bijou enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Bijou Phillips responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.
Phillips is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Bijou Phillips thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Bijou Phillips puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Bijou Phillips and she is not happy without a love partner. Phillips can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Bijou Phillips shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Bijou's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Bijou Phillips also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Bijou likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Bijou Phillips is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Bijou is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Bijou Phillips professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Phillips a lot of breathing space.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 4th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mars/Neptune
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Uranus
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Opposition Uranus