challenges and difficulties
Elayne Boosler takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Elayne enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Elayne Boosler also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Elayne Boosler does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Elayne Boosler must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Elayne Boosler becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Boosler is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Elayne Boosler instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Elayne Boosler needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Elayne Boosler's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Boosler's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Boosler's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Boosler's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Boosler's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Elayne Boosler needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how Boosler's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Boosler's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Elayne Boosler needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Elayne Boosler back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Staying in relationships with domineering, controlling, abusive people or being manipulative. Elayne sometimes abuses her own power to use others to her own selfish ends.
She is well-mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Elayne Boosler is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Elayne feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Elayne Boosler thinks of others before she thinks of herself and is always ready to lend a helping hand. She is deeply concerned with the community which she lives in, loves her family and relatives and has a strong need to maintain close relationships with them.
Boosler is able to achieve good cooperation with people, and others see her as a welcome comrade. Elayne likes to work hand in hand with everyone and has an excellent sense of team-work.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Pluto
N. Node Opposition Sun/Mercury
N. Node Opposition Moon/Venus
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Jupiter