Edgar Bergen
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Edgar Bergen is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Edgar Bergen is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Though he wants close relationships very much, Edgar Bergen often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Bergen is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Edgar Bergen often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Edgar Bergen does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Bergen tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Edgar Bergen enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
Edgar Bergen has a very rich emotional life and the ability to do the right thing at the right moment. Through an appeal to the feelings, he is able to influence the public; Bergen may have the desire to work in some capacity to bring about social improvements.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Edgar Bergen gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Edgar Bergen may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Edgar feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Edgar Bergen idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Bergen is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Edgar Bergen is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Edgar uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Edgar Bergen does.
There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Bergen's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Edgar Bergen finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable to he may not be at all attuned to his sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is, the people Edgar loves and the people Edgar wants to make love with are very different from one another. Edgar Bergen may be confused about what he really needs and wants in personal relationships. Bergen needs to acknowledge that he has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality, or security and commitment in love relationships but also a lot of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.
Edgar Bergen experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Edgar Bergen has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Edgar Bergen can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 8th house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Sextile Uranus
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Pluto
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 1st house
Venus Quincunx Mars
Venus Square Pluto
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