Eddie Van Halen
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Eddie should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Van Halen often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Van Halen's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Eddie Van Halen insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Eddie does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Eddie Van Halen feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Eddie has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Eddie Van Halen may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Van Halen's tie to his mother is very strong and Eddie Van Halen also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Van Halen's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Eddie Van Halen is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Eddie Van Halen that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Van Halen's neediness often drives others away. When Eddie Van Halen does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Van Halen will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Eddie Van Halen will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

In love relationships, Eddie Van Halen seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Eddie, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Eddie Van Halen supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Eddie that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Eddie Van Halen is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

For Eddie Van Halen, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Eddie values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Eddie Van Halen needs to beware of.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 4th house

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 2nd house