challenges and difficulties
Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit has a great capacity for self-denial in the pursuit of a long-range goal. Dylan is capable of hard work and persistent labor, but he may lack the capacity for joy and play. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit often feels burdened by life's demands and responsibilities, and may envy those who seem to attract what they want in life without a great deal of personal effort.
There is a very judgmental, stern, and uncompromising side of Tuomy-Wilhoit's that may inhibit him a great deal. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit must avoid becoming cumbersome and cynical, or a rather callous, sophisticated adult whose sense of practicality and realism rob him of the playful, imaginative side of life.
Tuomy-Wilhoit is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit better than being with groups of his own peers.
Somewhat shy, Dylan finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit to establish relationships, he would rather be by himself. Dylan prefers everything to be simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Dylan should take care not to trust others too blindly. Some of his friends or associates may be untruthful and try to deceive him, resulting in great disappointments or even losses for Tuomy-Wilhoit.
Dylan tries to build his life on solid ground, but may find it difficult to move forward because he always tends to look back. This could result in feelings of inferiority and periodic depression.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is deep within himself, as Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit faces his own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of his life that Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit keeps hidden from public view where he is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
He is very obliging in his interaction with other people and can easily relate to them. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit is likely to have many friends and acquaintances who share the same ideas and viewpoints as he does.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Asc.
Saturn Conjunct Neptune/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Asc./MC
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Asc.