approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Dylan's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Dylan a little better. This page describes the disguise Tuomy-Wilhoit wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a gentle, sensitive person with a deep understanding of people and a very tolerant, accepting, non-judgmental approach towards life. In a noisy, competitive atmosphere Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit is often receding and withdrawn for he is not an aggressive, forceful person, and he intensely dislikes conflict. In fact Dylan tends to be somewhat passive, to wait, watch, observe, feel and know much - but to act little. Letting things resolve or work themselves out in their own way, rather than directing or forcing his will upon them is often Tuomy-Wilhoit's way of dealing with problems.
Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit may have a deeply religious or spiritual feeling about life, not in the orthodox sense necessarily, but an intuitive sense of the immensity and underlying oneness of all life, which makes so many human aspirations seem rather unimportant. He needs peaceful surroundings in order to flourish, and periods of quiet solitude are essential for Tuomy-Wilhoit's emotional balance and well-being.
Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit is also very compassionate and cannot tolerate seeing any fellow creature suffer - be it human, animal, or even plant! As a child Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit probably cried very easily and became quite upset whenever others were hurt, physically or emotionally. The world of Tuomy-Wilhoit's imagination and fantasy was also very real to Tuomy-Wilhoit, a place to escape to when the outside world became too harsh, demanding, or simply uninteresting.
Because he is very giving and forgiving, people sense Tuomy-Wilhoit's sympathetic nature and gravitate toward him when in need. Often Tuomy-Wilhoit will continue to give to people even when he realizes they are taking advantage of him or becoming overly dependent upon him. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit overlooks and makes excuses for other people's weaknesses, and for his own as well. Discrimination and self-discipline are not Tuomy-Wilhoit's strong points.
Though he may be as intelligent as anyone else, he does not really have a rational, logical approach toward life, and trying to reach Dylan through logical arguments is often futile. His feelings, intuition, and heart, not his head, lead him, which may infuriate or bewilder Tuomy-Wilhoit's more rational friends. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit certainly recognizes that there is much more to life than can be explained intellectually and categorized into neat little boxes, and Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit has an open, receptive attitude toward such areas as psychic phenomena, telepathy, parapsychology, etc. He is not as structured and rigid in his attitudes as many people are, which enables Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit to see many different points of view and to accept all of them as valid. This can lead to vagueness, uncertainty, and confusion on his part - or to a very flexible and holistic way of approaching any issue.
At times his feisty spirit, aggressiveness, and overly forceful approach get Dylan into trouble. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit tends to take offense when none was intended. He may be viewed as a troublemaker, an upstart, or an egotist with little concern for others. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit needs to moderate his temper in order to avoid constant irritation with those in his environment.
His emotional instincts, feelings and intuition play a big part in the decisions Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit makes and how he interacts with the world, and generally his feelings are quite accurate and helpful to him. Also, establishing emotional rapport with the people he meets day-to-day is rather easy for Tuomy-Wilhoit. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit appears somewhat sympathetic and concerned, so that others are drawn to him, especially when they need guidance or help.
Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit comes across to others as intelligent, alert, articulate, knowledgeable and communicative. He is quite curious and interested in the people and events around him and cannot resist commenting about them.
Tuomy-Wilhoit also needs to be busy and active and he moves quickly. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit also appears to be restless. Keeping his mind or hands occupied helps with that.
Tuomy-Wilhoit's intellect and emotions are well balanced. Dylan has the ability to manage his feelings superbly and has a cautious, adaptable and open way about him. Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit likes to associate with the public and has an understanding for the "man on the street".
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mars Square Asc.
Moon Sextile Asc.
Mercury Sextile Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Mercury