challenges and difficulties
Doris Day takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Doris enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Doris Day also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Doris Day has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Doris limits herself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in herself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Doris Day difficult to get to know intimately, as Day tends to distance herself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Once she decides what she wants to do, Doris Day will pursue her goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for her deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Doris feel a little out of step with others. Doris Day takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Doris feels and how driven she is about the things that are important to her. Doris Day has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to her, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
Doris Day has a serious outlook on life and a tendency to dwell on her own flaws as well as those of everyone else. Day could be rather reserved with people and may find it difficult to express herself, giving a more negative impression than she intended.
Doris tries to keeps her sensuality under control and is likely to suppress the tension she feels in her love relationships. At times she could feel somewhat emotionally inhibited, while at other times Doris Day may have a strong wish to break all moral barriers.
She is inclined to be quite reserved and cautious in her relationships with others. But Doris may also have an exaggerated regard for other peoples views and could give them more credence than they are worth.
She is inclined to be rather serious and withdrawn. Feeling very uncomfortable in the presence of others, Doris Day shies away from social contacts and prefers to be by herself.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Doris Day instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Doris Day needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Doris stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Doris Day has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Doris Day feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Doris Day calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Doris Day needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Doris Day between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Doris Day seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Day's task.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Doris Day back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
The following are specific activities that will support Doris Day in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Day, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Doris Day should develop faith and confidence both in herself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help her. She needs to expand her willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable her to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with her time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Doris Day.
Doris Day should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. She may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit Day's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. She is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Doris really wants such jobs or not, usually because she has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in her path - more adversity than others seem to face - and Day's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
She is likely to offer help and protection to people around her and encourage moral values. Doris Day stands up for social justice and unselfishly works for the good of her community. Refusing any kind of personal advantages, Doris lives in harmony with everyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Opposition Sun/Mercury
Saturn Opposition Venus/Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.
Saturn Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Saturn