challenges and difficulties
Mitford either overvalues or undervalues her possessions and assets. She can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Diana Mitford may deny herself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of her labors. She may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Diana Mitford feels that she does not have "enough" to make her feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) she has!
Diana Mitford takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Mitford a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Diana Mitford and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Mitford will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Her faith, optimism, and sense of possibilities are tempered by much caution, and often doubt or skepticism as well. Whatever hopes or visions Diana Mitford has for her life are firmly held in check by her sense of reality. At times she may wish for more freedom, but Lady Mosley also fears it and hang back. Diana Mitford may blame practical limitations or some external condition or the prevailing Authority for her own inhibitions.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Diana Mitford instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Diana Mitford needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Diana Mitford benefits by becoming more aware of the rhythm of the seasons and the natural world, learning to slow down and allow life to unfold in its own time. Nurturing a garden, a child, or some other living, growing thing gives Diana Mitford a sense of inner balance.
Diana Mitford has a tendency to be deeply suspicious, to not take anything at face value and to see hidden agendas and dark motives even where none exist! Life does not have to be a constant conflict... Lady Mosley needs to learn to accept things as they are.
Mitford also needs to develop patience, peace and stability by grounding herself in her daily work and behaving consistently and reliably towards others.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Diana Mitford has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Mitford will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Diana Mitford in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Mitford, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Diana Mitford has to learn to communicate and express herself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Lady Mosley to study, learn skills and develop her intellectual interests and capacities. Mitford needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing her intellectual reasoning ability. Diana Mitford should practice using her mind, her thinking skills and her ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for her.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Diana Mitford to pursue.
Diana Mitford seems to be a loner, rather serious and quiet. Perhaps she is burdened by family conditions that weigh her down. Lady Mosley prefers to associate with older or more authoritative people and is happier in a subordinate position.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn
N. Node in Taurus
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Saturn