Bernardo Guillermo
in Relationships

Bernardo Guillermo responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Guillermo often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Bernardo Guillermo must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Bernardo's need for times of withdrawal.

Bernardo Guillermo is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Bernardo Guillermo takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Though he yearns for close relationships, Bernardo Guillermo often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Guillermo is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

Guillermo is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Bernardo Guillermo needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.

He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Bernardo Guillermo craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Guillermo also loves to feel free and unfettered.

Bernardo Guillermo has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and his feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. Bernardo goes out of his way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.

His emotional excitability is very strong and Guillermo tends to be high-strung and impatient. Bernardo Guillermo knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Bernardo Guillermo to back down gracefully when he is confronted.

In love relationships, Bernardo Guillermo is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Bernardo enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Bernardo Guillermo responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

When he cares about someone, Bernardo Guillermo likes to show his affection with small favors or tangible gestures.

Bernardo Guillermo also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Bernardo is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.

Bernardo Guillermo is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Bernardo Guillermo pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Bernardo Guillermo rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Bernardo is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Guillermo craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Bernardo Guillermo needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Guillermo is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Bernardo Guillermo has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Bernardo acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

Bernardo Guillermo is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Bernardo is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Bernardo Guillermo professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Guillermo a lot of breathing space.

He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Bernardo Guillermo to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Guillermo may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Bernardo Guillermo will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

It is easy for Bernardo Guillermo to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Bernardo likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 8th house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon Trine Uranus

Moon Conjunct Venus/MC

Moon Conjunct Mars/MC

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 6th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Square Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Opposition Uranus/Asc.