challenges and difficulties
Arnaz fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Desi Arnaz may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Desi.
Desi Arnaz has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Desi limits himself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in himself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Desi Arnaz difficult to get to know intimately, as Arnaz tends to distance himself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Desi Arnaz instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Desi Arnaz needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Desi Arnaz has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Desi Arnaz needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Desi Arnaz needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Desi Arnaz to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Desi Arnaz has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
He may have the feeling that he constantly has to surrender to the wishes of other people and he gives the impression of having a passive or indifferent role in his relationships. Desi Arnaz never takes the initiative and depends on the support of groups he is affiliated with.
Desi Arnaz seems to have an innate sense of cosmic awareness and is likely to have strong psychical or metaphysical talents. He is inclined to join some parapsychology groups where he may share his unusual experiences with others.
Desi should use extra care in his relationships with people, for he could easily end up in the wrong crowd. Desi Arnaz could be the victim of fraud and falsehood or through association may become an accessory to malicious action.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 1st house
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Moon/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Asc.