approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Dennis' basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Dennis Lehane comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Dennis Lehane - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Dennis Lehane" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Dennis a little better. This page describes the disguise Lehane wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Dennis Lehane has a sensible and realistic outlook on life and his two feet are always planted firmly on the ground (though he may, on occasion, have his head in the clouds). Others often see Lehane as a rock of strength, solid, reliable, dependable, and constant. He is, in fact, amazingly consistent for he possesses great powers of endurance and does not like to make changes or adjustments to his regular routine. Dennis does things deliberately and methodically and does not easily accommodate the unexpected. Though he has a gentle, even soft, appearance, Dennis Lehane is enormously strong-willed and stubborn. He follows his own pace and refuses to be rushed or pushed into anything before he feels sure about it. Lehane can be coaxed and persuaded by charm, beauty, love or affection - but never forced. He will not fight either, but simply stubbornly resist any attempt at being coerced into doing something he does not want to do.
When Lehane has a purpose, he is extremely fixed, immovable, and bullheaded about it. His obstinacy is often infuriating to others, especially since it takes much provocation to make him flare up or respond to their anger. Dennis Lehane appears calm, unruffled, and unemotional most of the time, but behind his easygoing and peaceable appearance there lies great strength. When it comes to a contest of wills, Dennis often wins simply due to his relentless persistence and his ability to outlast just about anyone. Another reason for his reluctance to make changes is his very strong need for security. Dennis is most comfortable in stable, relatively unchanging conditions and he also has a strong desire for tangible security - a home of his own, money in the bank, job security, etc. The flip side of Lehane's hankering for permanence is that he easily gets caught up in a rut and will stay in a familiar situation (e.g. job, marriage) long after it has lost its vitality and interest.
Dennis Lehane has a keen appreciation of the natural world and he derives great joy from the down-to-earth comforts of the physical world, with its myriad of delights. He is quite sensual in a very natural, wholesome way and he knows how to enjoy himself. Lehane is appealing to the opposite sex in an earthy way. He is also a great lover of beauty and his tastes are basically conventional or classic - not modern.
He may seem to others to be very gentle, malleable, and easily taken in. As a result, people can take advantage of Dennis Lehane, especially through his pity or sympathy. If Dennis seems to be continually disappointed by or deceived by others, he should try to see how his own naiveté may be contributing to these situations.
Dennis has an appealing physical appearance and this, along with his winning ways, is apt to make him a favorite in his immediate environment. Dennis Lehane is the "easy" one, and he knows how to please others. However, Lehane must not take his personal charm for granted, because he may also seem vain or too needy for approval.
Dennis Lehane appears to be liberal and open-minded. Anything new, innovative, unusual, or off the beaten track arouses his interest. Lehane infuses his environment with enthusiasm, new life and excitement. Though not intentionally disruptive, Dennis Lehane does enjoy startling or waking people up a bit.
There is a certain intensity, charisma, or compelling attractiveness about Dennis Lehane that may have little to do with his physical features. It is energy, a subtle sexuality that he emanates. Also, Lehane tends to do everything wholeheartedly and with passion, which is quite fascinating to other people. His instincts and psychological perceptions about others are quite incisive.
Dennis Lehane appears responsible, conscientious, and solid - qualities which encourage others to take him seriously. He is unlikely to present himself as more than he is, and this humility is often endearing, or at least appealing, to others. Even as a youth, Dennis Lehane seemed mature for his age.
Dennis often comes across to others more abruptly or even antagonistically than is necessary to achieve his aims. And naturally if people perceive that he is trying to compete with them or run them over, some of them will put up a lot of resistance to Dennis Lehane and his objectives. Lehane might be more successful if he tones himself down a bit and shows some consideration, without completely sacrificing his own needs and wants.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Neptune Opposition Asc.
Venus Trine Asc.
Uranus Trine Asc.
Pluto Trine Asc.
Saturn Sextile Asc.
Mars Quincunx Asc.