Dennis Lehane
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Dennis Lehane only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Lehane.
Dennis has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Dennis Lehane has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Dennis Lehane to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Dennis Lehane has a great deal of emotional depth.
Lehane depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Dennis' life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Dennis Lehane may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous, and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Dennis Lehane feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst Lehane can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Dennis' emotional indulgence - Lehane tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Dennis Lehane often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Dennis Lehane is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Dennis Lehane is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Dennis Lehane also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Dennis Lehane loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Lehane needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner, and he wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to his beloved. Dennis Lehane also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Dennis Lehane and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Dennis allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Dennis Lehane, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
When it comes to love relationships, Lehane is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Dennis Lehane has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Dennis acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Dennis Lehane falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Dennis to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Lehane's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Dennis Lehane, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.
Dennis has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Lehane experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Dennis Lehane is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.
Dennis Lehane has a constant longing for new and exciting adventures. Dennis likes to be admired and he has a tendency to force admiration by fishing for compliments. His creative power also is strong, and Lehane may have a desire to create some entirely new form of art.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 7th house
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 5th house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Pluto
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