Dedee Pfeiffer
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in her relationships, Dedee Pfeiffer inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in her loved ones. This is good, since she would never settle for anything less! Dedee wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty she feels she is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Pfeiffer lavishes on those she cares about. Dedee Pfeiffer has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt her feelings is to ignore her. She is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Dedee Pfeiffer hates emotional games and dishonesty.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Dedee Pfeiffer cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Dedee Pfeiffer has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Dedee takes risks on impulse or whim.

She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Dedee Pfeiffer is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Dedee has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Dedee - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.

She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Dedee Pfeiffer often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Dedee does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Dedee Pfeiffer is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Her emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Pfeiffer may feel inhibited when she is with others. Dedee Pfeiffer is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Dedee Pfeiffer values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Dedee desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Pfeiffer, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Dedee Pfeiffer appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Pfeiffer is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Dedee Pfeiffer thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Dedee Pfeiffer loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Dedee considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well-liked. At times, Dedee Pfeiffer overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets this.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Dedee Pfeiffer to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Dedee becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Dedee Pfeiffer really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Dedee's closest relationships.

She is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Dedee Pfeiffer to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Pfeiffer may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Dedee Pfeiffer will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of her (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

She is inclined to have sudden attachments to others and may fall in love quickly. Dedee Pfeiffer warms up to people very rapidly, even if she sees them only once. In fact, Dedee probably prefers a lot of changes in her relationships.

Dedee Pfeiffer seems to have an unusual power of attraction to other people and frequently may associate with others whether they are good for her or not. Very compulsive in love relationships, Pfeiffer could have a kind of tragic love union.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 5th house

Moon Opposition Venus

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Conjunct Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Opposition Uranus/N. Node

Venus Opposition Pluto/N. Node