challenges and difficulties
Winger both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable to others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting them get to know her intimately does not come easily to Debra, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Debra Winger is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Winger.
Debra Winger has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Debra limits herself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in herself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Debra Winger difficult to get to know intimately, as Winger tends to distance herself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Debra Winger instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Debra Winger needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Debra Winger to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Debra Winger needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Debra directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Winger's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
It is in her dealings with money, financial security, tangible assets and possessions that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above are ones Debra Winger needs to integrate in tangible ways: how she makes a living, building assets and a secure material base, what she does with the resources she has. Debra Winger should try to avoid over involvement or entanglements with other people's money matters, legal business, and personal affairs.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Debra Winger back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
Winger makes a big impression on everyone she meets and has the ability to attract many people. Others find Debra Winger very fascinating and she is likely to see herself as their model in groups or associations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 1st house
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 2nd house
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Venus/Pluto