approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Debra's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Debra Winger comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Debra Winger - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Debra Winger" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Debra a little better. This page describes the disguise Winger wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Debra Winger will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Debra has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Debra Winger very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Winger is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Debra Winger will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Winger's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Debra Winger appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Winger is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Debra possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Debra Winger - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Debra Winger does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Debra.
Others see Debra Winger as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Winger shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Debra Winger usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Debra Winger seems gentle and receptive and often does not make a clear, strong impression on others. Debra Winger has an elusive and subtle quality, and people may be nebulous about who she is. She is easily influenced by others and somewhat naive. Debra Winger has a spiritual, mystical approach to life and she is very idealistic and sometimes impractical.
Her desire to love and be loved is very much apparent, very much on the surface, and Debra Winger is known for her personal charm and affectionate nature. She may also seem overly dependent on the approval and appreciation of others.
Debra Winger has a rather generous, open, broad-minded demeanor, and she likes to do things in a big way. If she does this primarily to impress others, Debra will find that many people prefer to avoid her. Even without meaning to, Winger can seem a bit arrogant or preachy.
Debra Winger comes across as quirky, unusual, offbeat and "different". Sometimes she appears to provoke people and upset the status quo just by being herself. Winger tends to be restless, excitable and somewhat ungrounded or nervous as well.
She is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who Debra Winger is or what she wants - she is pretty much up front. Debra radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when she is at her best. She seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
Debra has penetrating insight into people and a keen eye and ear for the hidden, unspoken, behind-the-scenes facets of life. She may seem intense and make other people a bit uncomfortable at times. There is also a sexual quality in Debra's manner which can be quite alluring, in a subtle way.
The image that Debra Winger projects to the world and the person she really is inside are considerably different. So much so that at times Debra may feel that people do not see or know the real her. They respond to the face they see, and the initial impression Winger makes may actually be misleading. There is also much complexity and tension within her, and Debra Winger often feels that she needs to change herself in significant ways or that she continually holds back essential aspects of herself.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Neptune Conjunct Asc.
Venus Opposition Asc.
Jupiter Square Asc.
Uranus Square Asc.
Mars Trine Asc.
Pluto Sextile Asc.
Sun Quincunx Asc.