Though Vanian may seem breezy, independent and freedom loving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), he is in fact not completely happy without a partner. He enjoys being on the move and exploring new territory, but wants a traveling companion! Vanian yearns for fulfilling, yet non-restricting relationships.
Harmony and balance are his keynotes. David Vanian instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and he is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, David does all he can to avoid conflict and discord. His spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and he often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Vanian since he can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make his own decisions. Vanian will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. He prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on his own. Being alone feels very unnatural to David Vanian, and he has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
David Vanian invests a great deal of his energy in personal love relationships and he is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. David Vanian seeks a partner who is his equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. He makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and he enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Vanian perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. David Vanian appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in his personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to him. If David Vanian fights about anything, it is often about something he feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to David. He believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
David Vanian also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Vanian dresses and furnishes his home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to him.
Vanian is very attracted to world travel, foreign cultures and studies that expand his intellectual horizons and broaden his understanding of the world.
David Vanian is philosophically inclined and concerned with seeking answers to the big questions of life or getting an overall picture of any situation. Abstract concepts and/or plans for the future occupy his mind much of the time.
David Vanian has a great need for security which he may seek in a partner who could be older than him and perhaps married before. David Vanian probably feels restrained in expressing affection, giving the impression of being cool and indifferent toward those he loves.
He is polite and gallant and makes a special effort to meet others half-way. David Vanian has the ability to give and receive love. Nurturing friendships, personal love relationships and social life is important to him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Sagittarius and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 9th house
Sun Conjunct Venus/Saturn
Sun Conjunct Venus/N. Node