challenges and difficulties
Cyndi Lauper takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Cyndi enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Cyndi Lauper also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Her fears revolve around money and material security, and Cyndi Lauper works very hard to ensure that her assets are solid. She may be very conservative, even stingy with her money because she is afraid there will not be enough. She may turn this fear around and become very shrewd about investments and financial matters.
Cyndi Lauper takes her ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Cyndi has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but she can also become so involved in her imaginative, idealistic pursuits that she looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Cyndi Lauper becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Lauper is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Quite reserved and somewhat inhibited in her relationships with others, Cyndi Lauper may feel that she is better off by herself. Cyndi feels that she does not fit in very well with people and she finds teamwork difficult.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Cyndi Lauper instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Cyndi Lauper needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cyndi Lauper's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Lauper's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Lauper's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Lauper's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Lauper's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Cyndi Lauper needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how Lauper's unique gifts can benefit others.
The arena she is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Cyndi Lauper should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials she feels she possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
She may have an inner fear of separation and could feel left out or ignored at times. Either Cyndi Lauper did not receive much affection while she was growing up or it had to be shared with others. Cyndi may find it difficult to show her love in her relationships.
Cyndi has the inclination to gossip and spread stories or she could be the subject of gossip herself at times. Her perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Cyndi Lauper may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Lauper constantly seems to be under tremendous pressure and she wants to achieve record performances. Because she has a strong desire to accomplish immense tasks through teamwork with others, Cyndi Lauper has a tendency to demand too much of other people.
She is very obliging and always looks for relationships with other people. Cyndi Lauper tends to really feel at home with her family or in groups or associations that she may join. Cyndi has a strong desire to feel at one with her community.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 2nd house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mars/N. Node
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Venus/Saturn
N. Node Opposition Venus/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Uranus/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Asc./MC