challenges and difficulties
Connie has difficulty asserting her will and desires directly and openly. She may also suppress her anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in herself are important tasks for Stevens.
Connie Stevens takes both her work and her health very seriously, but she may demand so much of her at work that she compromise her health. Connie can become a workaholic, not so much because she has lofty ambitions, but because she never feels like she has done enough. Connie Stevens is overly responsible or overly conscientious at work, so much so that she may not enjoy it at all.
Stevens can also get overly involved in self-improvement or her health, and she tends to be a bit of a hypochondriac.
At times Connie Stevens struggles with nebulous worries and insecurities, fears which may be difficult to name. Mostly, she may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of her mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Connie Stevens has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if her religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting herself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Connie occasionally.
Basically shy, Connie may become a bit inhibited when talking with other people. Connie Stevens tends to withdraw from others and likes to live a humble, quiet live in seclusion. She may get involved with a group of a secretive nature, although Stevens is not one to join groups in general.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Connie Stevens instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Connie Stevens needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
She is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on her path, but when under stress Connie Stevens becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what she has, she is apt to ignore the subtle signals she receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
Connie Stevens needs to learn the limits of her ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for her. Stevens also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward her appetites and desires, as Connie Stevens tends to overindulge and/or deny herself excessively.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Connie Stevens between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Connie Stevens seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Stevens' task.
She is very social minded and it is easy for Connie Stevens to show her affection. Her family or community probably provided good possibilities for her development. Stevens may love to show off a little and she thrives on being involved with others in joyful group activities.
Connie Stevens thinks of others before she thinks of herself and is always ready to lend a helping hand. She is deeply concerned with the community which she lives in, loves her family and relatives and has a strong need to maintain close relationships with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 6th house
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Opposition Mercury/N. Node
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Sun/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Venus