approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Connie's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Connie Stevens comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Connie Stevens - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Connie Stevens" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Connie a little better. This page describes the disguise Stevens wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Connie Stevens will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Connie has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Connie Stevens very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Stevens is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Connie Stevens will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Stevens' politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Connie Stevens appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Stevens is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Connie possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Connie Stevens - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Connie Stevens does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Connie.
Others see Connie Stevens as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Stevens shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Connie Stevens usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
There is an intense and somewhat secretive or guarded quality about Connie Stevens which may make people around her distinctly uncomfortable. They may feel that Connie she is constantly scanning their inner motives, and she probably is. Stevens sees through anything phony, any false pretense - and she may or may not be above using others' Achilles' heels (which she perceives so clearly) against them. At times though, Connie Stevens may be too suspicious and assigns negative intentions to innocent people. Connie should avoid looking always on the dark side.
Connie Stevens seems tolerant, broad-minded, and well-educated or as if she has traveled widely. She radiates a certain distinction, even nobility. Stevens is apt to have a significant impact on the people she encounters, without even realizing it - a positive, encouraging one.
Connie Stevens has a kind and loving nature and she radiates friendliness and warmth wherever she goes. Because of her obliging and cordial manner, Stevens is likely to have many harmonious relationships with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Pluto Square Asc.
Jupiter Trine Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Venus/N. Node