challenges and difficulties
Webber doubts his own intelligence and mental capacities, and he may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Chris is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for him.
He may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Chris Webber does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend himself from its dangers and its unknowns. Chris Webber must learn to overcome his ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Chris Webber instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Chris Webber needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Chris Webber has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Chris Webber needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Chris Webber needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Chris Webber has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Webber will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Chris Webber in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Webber, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Chris Webber should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems he faces. It is in Webber's best interest to act on his own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for him. Chris Webber needs to assert himself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Chris needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick himself up, and go! He also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 12th house
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars