challenges and difficulties
Cheryl Tweedy takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Cheryl enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Cheryl Tweedy also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Her fears revolve around money and material security, and Cheryl Tweedy works very hard to ensure that her assets are solid. She may be very conservative, even stingy, with her money because she is afraid there will not be enough. She may turn this fear around and become very shrewd about investments and financial matters.
She is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Tweedy is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Cheryl Tweedy is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate her innermost feelings and thoughts.
Her emotional life is likely to be somewhat strained and she has a tendency toward pessimism. Cheryl Tweedy may not feel as close in her relationships to her loved ones as she would like to be, and it could be difficult for Cheryl to give and receive love.
She is inclined to be quite reserved and cautious in her relationships with others. But Cheryl may also have an exaggerated regard for other peoples views and could give them more credence than they are worth.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Cheryl Tweedy instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Cheryl Tweedy needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cheryl Tweedy needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Cheryl's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Tweedy's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Cheryl Tweedy to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Cheryl Tweedy is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Cheryl Tweedy needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in her public life and career that Cheryl Tweedy is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Tweedy's reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Cheryl Tweedy achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Cheryl Tweedy back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Escapism through fantasy, intoxicants, or passive, vicarious activities (television, movies, etc.), waiting for a miracle instead of taking constructive steps to help herself, aimlessness or an inability to make and keep commitments, and self deception regarding other people. Cheryl has a tendency to be a martyr.
The following are specific activities that will support Cheryl Tweedy in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Tweedy, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Cheryl Tweedy has to learn to communicate and express herself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Cheryl to study, learn skills and develop her intellectual interests and capacities. Tweedy needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing her intellectual reasoning ability. Cheryl Tweedy should practice using her mind, her thinking skills and her ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for her.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Cheryl Tweedy to pursue.
Cheryl Tweedy should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Tweedy's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. Cheryl Tweedy needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Cheryl needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Cheryl Tweedy has a strong desire to share her opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that she has. She may enjoy studying and developing her intellectual interests with them.
Cheryl Tweedy has a strong desire to acquire a leading position in her community. Although she is very capable of assuming leadership, Cheryl also has a tendency to impose her will upon others. But in spite of that, she is likely to be successful.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 2nd house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Opposition Moon/MC
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Opposition Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Mars
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/MC
N. Node Conjunct Mars/MC