challenges and difficulties
Chastity has difficulty asserting her will and desires directly and openly. She may also suppress her anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in herself are important tasks for Bono.
Her childhood or her relationships with her parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Chastity from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Chastity Bono felt deprived in some manner, whether or not she actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of her needs and feelings may typify her early life, at least as Bono remembers it. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Chastity Bono needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Chastity accomplish this.
Chastity Bono tends to be her own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of herself and harshly criticizing or persecuting herself when she does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in her life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Chastity's belief that she must struggle alone.
She is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Chastity Bono develops her power and inner strength. However, Chastity Bono should not make life harder than it is. She must give herself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that she is only human.
Chastity Bono has a tendency to be too critical of herself. She may be plagued by feelings of guilt about some past events, leading to further self-doubt. Chastity must learn to handle her frustration, depression and discontentment and try to overcome her lack of self-confidence.
Chastity Bono tends to be very sensitive to her surroundings and is strongly influenced by the prevailing conditions around her. Chastity may feels that she has more obligations than she can properly handle, and that it is hopeless to even try.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Chastity Bono instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Chastity Bono needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Chastity Bono - so much so that she seeks them out at her own expense. When she is under stress, Bono tends to look outside herself for approval or answers, and she leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge her own path through life is a key factor in her self-development.
Chastity Bono is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about her intentions or desires, and she can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Bono's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Chastity Bono needs to cultivate her ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on her own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Bono's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Chastity Bono needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Chastity Bono back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Chastity Bono tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Chastity is overconfident and tends to overextend herself and take on more than is humanly possible. Chastity is often dogmatic about her philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Chastity Bono seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
Chastity Bono has a very engaging manner in the company of others and her relationships with other people are likely to be harmonious. Some of her connections may prove to be helpful to Chastity with her plans.
Chastity likes to be on the go constantly and tends to have a hectic family life. She knows how to eliminate competition, but should guard against rising to the top in her position at the expense of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
Saturn Opposition Moon/Mars
Saturn Opposition Moon/Neptune
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/MC
N. Node Opposition Uranus/MC