challenges and difficulties
Carol Kane takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Carol enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Carol Kane also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Carol Kane tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Kane withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Carol's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
Carol Kane becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Kane is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Carol Kane instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Carol Kane needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Carol Kane's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Kane's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Kane's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Kane's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Kane's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Carol Kane needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how Kane's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Carol Kane to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Carol Kane has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Carol Kane back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Staying in relationships with domineering, controlling, abusive people or being manipulative. Carol sometimes abuses her own power to use others to her own selfish ends.
Carol Kane tends to feel inferior and her attitude in the presence of others could be a bit negative or weak. She is inclined to shy away from groups and would be a rather quiet and passive member of an organization or association.
She is reserved and somewhat conservative in presenting her viewpoints to others and prefers a philosophical discussion to small talk. Carol Kane is quite selective in her choice of subjects and only wants to study what is really of interest to her.
Carol has the inclination to gossip and spread stories or she could be the subject of gossip herself at times. Her perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Carol Kane may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Pluto
N. Node Opposition Sun/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Saturn
N. Node Opposition Venus/Neptune