approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Carey's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Carey Hart comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Carey Hart - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Carey Hart" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Carey a little better. This page describes the disguise Hart wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Carey Hart will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Carey has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Carey Hart very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Hart is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Carey Hart will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Hart's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Carey Hart appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Hart is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Carey possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Carey Hart - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Carey Hart does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Carey.
Others see Carey Hart as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Hart shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Carey Hart usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
He may come across a bit scattered, nervous, or restless, as if he cannot sit still. Carey Hart seems alert and quick, but sometimes a bit on edge. Carey tends to stay perpetually busy, and would find handiwork of some kind to be soothing.
Carey Hart tends to blend in with and take on the characteristics of the people in his surroundings, and may thus not make a powerful individual statement of his own. He may project an aura of glamour or "make-believe", and enjoy trying on different personalities at different times.
Carey often comes across to others more abruptly or even antagonistically than is necessary to achieve his aims. And naturally if people perceive that he is trying to compete with them or run them over, some of them will put up a lot of resistance to Carey Hart and his objectives. Hart might be more successful if he tones himself down a bit and shows some consideration, without completely sacrificing his own needs and wants.
Others are attracted to Hart because of his light-hearted, cheerful and optimistic personality. Very charming, Carey Hart is likely to give frequent compliments. He is very affectionate toward others and has a need to be in active relationships with people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mercury Square Asc.
Neptune Sextile Asc.
Mars Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Venus