challenges and difficulties
Brandi Lyons has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. She is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that she discourages herself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Lyons knows it should be done.
She frequently over analyzes or picks things apart mentally. Brandi Lyons may also be somewhat of a hypochondriac. Brandi must learn that she does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax her unnecessarily high or strict standards.
She is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Brandi Lyons tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Lyons withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Brandi's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
Lyons may find it difficult to relate to people and express her feelings, especially in love relationships. On the hand, Brandi Lyons wants relationships yet on the other, she would rather be by herself. A sense of personal inadequacy makes Brandi withdraw from others and feel lonely as a result.
Sometimes circumstances appear to be working against Brandi, and she may have to confront major challenges. Brandi Lyons will probably have to work harder than others in order to succeed, thereby rendering her hard and cold hearted in her decision-making.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Brandi Lyons instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Brandi Lyons needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Her natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing her situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing her situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Brandi Lyons copes with stress. Brandi Lyons also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
Her development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Brandi Lyons to function more efficiently in the world. Finding a way to be of practical service is also important.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Brandi Lyons is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Lyons' relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Brandi Lyons back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being bound to past events and experiences because of her desire to belong, deep attachments to family and the familiar (even if they are neither nourishing nor helpful), the desire to nurture or be nurtured by others, and a strong resistance to cutting the umbilical cord.
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
Brandi Lyons has a friendly, open and sociable demeanor and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. She may enjoy participating in artistic events and she likes to associate with art lovers.
Lyons cooperates with others in a vigorous and energetic way. Her motto seems to be "one for all and all for one", and she feels strongly connected with others. In fact, Brandi Lyons looks upon other people as necessary for a worthwhile life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Opposition Venus/Mars
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
N. Node in Virgo
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Moon
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Sun/Venus
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mars