challenges and difficulties
Betty White takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Betty enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Betty White also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Her fears revolve around money and material security, and Betty White works very hard to ensure that her assets are solid. She may be very conservative, even stingy with her money because she is afraid there will not be enough. She may turn this fear around and become very shrewd about investments and financial matters.
Once she decides what she wants to do, Betty White will pursue her goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for her deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Betty feel a little out of step with others. Betty White takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Betty feels and how driven she is about the things that are important to her. Betty White has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to her, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
The side of Betty White that wants and needs structure, order, stability, and a disciplined way of life is at odds with her urges for unfettered freedom, change, excitement, and discovery. There is apt to be much discontent, inner stress, and tension as a result, and at times Betty finds it hard to relax. Betty White may act out in a rebellious way now and then, or clamp down hard on herself, in an attempt to strictly control her "wild" impulses. White's task is to try to find a reasonable balance between order and creative chaos in her life.
Betty White tends to experience inner conflicts between her responsibilities and her desires. White may give preference to duties over desires, which makes it very difficult for her to be truly happy.
Betty White strongly rebels against any restrictions and may have the desire to break away and overthrow any thoughts of responsibility. On the other hand, limitations in her life could suddenly wane, thereby leaving White free to do her own thing.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Betty White instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Betty White needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Betty stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Betty White has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Betty White feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Betty White calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Betty White needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Betty White is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In White's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support Betty White in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to White, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Betty White should develop faith and confidence both in herself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help her. She needs to expand her willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable her to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with her time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Betty White.
Betty White should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. She may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit White's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. She is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Betty really wants such jobs or not, usually because she has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in her path - more adversity than others seem to face - and White's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
She is likely to offer help and protection to people around her and promote moral values. Betty White stands up for social justice and unselfishly works for the good of her community. , Betty White refuses any kind of personal advantage and lives in harmony with everyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 2nd house
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Quincunx Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Jupiter
Saturn Opposition Uranus/MC
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Saturn