challenges and difficulties
Grable fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Betty Grable may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Betty.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Betty. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Betty Grable is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Grable wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Betty has an inner conflict between idealism, hope, and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. Betty Grable needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Grable will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Betty Grable takes her ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Betty has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but she can also become so involved in her imaginative, idealistic pursuits that she looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Betty dislikes tense or frustrating situations and has a strong desire to free herself from them. Acting quickly at times, Betty suddenly overcomes her inner inhibitions. Betty Grable also has the ability to grasp difficult situations correctly and to use them for her advancement.
She is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. Not very adaptable, Betty Grable could have considerable tension in her relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Betty Grable instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Betty Grable needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Betty Grable has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Betty Grable needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Betty Grable needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Betty Grable between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Betty Grable seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Grable's task.
Betty Grable seems to have an innate sense of cosmic awareness and is likely to have strong psychical or metaphysical talents. She is inclined to join some parapsychology groups where she may share her unusual experiences with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 8th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mars/Uranus
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Pluto