Belinda Emmett
in Relationships
Open and generous, Belinda Emmett enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Emmett rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Belinda always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Belinda Emmett often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Emmett, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Belinda Emmett to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Belinda's aspirations and ideals. Belinda Emmett also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Belinda Emmett has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Emmett also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Belinda, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Belinda Emmett takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Belinda Emmett actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.
Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Belinda Emmett does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Emmett tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Belinda Emmett enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Belinda Emmett gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Belinda Emmett may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Belinda feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Belinda Emmett idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Belinda Emmett craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Belinda loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Emmett.
She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Belinda's nature and Belinda Emmett feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Emmett. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Belinda Emmett has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Belinda Emmett has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Belinda frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Emmett can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Emmett's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Belinda Emmett to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Emmett may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Belinda Emmett will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 6th house
Moon Opposition Mars
Moon Sextile Uranus
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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