challenges and difficulties
Bebe Buell takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Bebe enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Bebe Buell also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Bebe Buell does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Bebe Buell must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Bebe Buell takes her ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Bebe has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but she can also become so involved in her imaginative, idealistic pursuits that she looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Bebe Buell becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Buell is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
She is susceptible to deception by others and may encounter people who dissuade her from her objectives and try to use her vulnerability to their advantage. Bebe Buell should watch her relationships very carefully so she will not get seriously hurt or disappointed.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Bebe Buell instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Bebe Buell needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Bebe Buell's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Buell's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Buell's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Buell's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Buell's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Bebe Buell needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how Buell's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Buell's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Bebe Buell needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Bebe Buell back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Buell's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow her energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury