Ashton Kutcher challenges and difficulties
He is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing himself freely and openly is not easy for Kutcher. Ashton Kutcher tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of his "performance" is an important task for Ashton.
His childhood or his relationships with his parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Ashton from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Ashton Kutcher felt deprived in some manner, whether or not he actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of his needs and feelings may typify his early life, at least as Kutcher remembers it. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Ashton Kutcher needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Ashton accomplish this.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Ashton Kutcher instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Ashton Kutcher needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Ashton stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Ashton Kutcher has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Ashton Kutcher feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Ashton Kutcher calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Ashton Kutcher needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
The arena he is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Ashton Kutcher should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials he feels he possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
His relationships with others could be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Ashton Kutcher avoids opposition and escapes his responsibilities. In his relationships he is likely to choose people who are asocial.
Ashton Kutcher tends to have a certain fear of crowds and may find it hard to integrate himself into a group of people. Working with others is not easy for Kutcher, and he may frequently encounter some upsets or hostility.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 4th house
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Saturn/Uranus
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