Alfred Adler
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Alfred Adler has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Adler is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Alfred Adler seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Adler tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Alfred's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Alfred Adler substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Adler gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Alfred Adler makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Alfred Adler needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Alfred Adler is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Alfred must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Alfred Adler gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Alfred Adler may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Alfred feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Alfred Adler idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Alfred is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Adler places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Alfred Adler feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Alfred Adler loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Alfred considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Alfred Adler overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.

His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Alfred Adler is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.

He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Alfred Adler should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".

Alfred Adler has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but he may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Alfred tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 11th house

Moon Conjunct Mars/Asc.

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus Sextile Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune