Arthur Hornblow Jr.
challenges and difficulties
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Arthur enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. also fears entrapment in close relationships.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Arthur from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Hornblow remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Arthur accomplish this task.
He is inclined to be somewhat timid and afraid to start something on his own, preferring that someone else tell him what to do. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. can easily be deterred from pursuing his goals, which makes his advancement in life rather slow.
Although Arthur Hornblow, Jr. is generally happy, at times he could become somewhat inhibited and because of this, he may occasionally let good opportunities slip by. Although he is interested in people, Hornblow also tends to periodically seek seclusion.
Arthur wants to go his own way and tends to withdraw into himself. He prefers to be alone and tends to cut himself off from other people. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. may be a bit too serious and conservative.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Arthur Hornblow, Jr. instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Arthur Hornblow, Jr. needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Arthur Hornblow, Jr. - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Hornblow tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Hornblow's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in his public life and career that Arthur Hornblow, Jr. is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Hornblow's reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Arthur Hornblow, Jr. achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Arthur Hornblow, Jr. in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Hornblow, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. should develop faith and confidence both in himself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help him. He needs to expand his willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable him to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with his time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Arthur Hornblow, Jr..
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Opposition Sun/Jupiter
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/MC
Saturn Opposition N. Node/MC
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter