approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Allison's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Allison Baver comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Allison Baver - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Allison Baver" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Allison a little better. This page describes the disguise Baver wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Allison Baver will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Allison has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Allison Baver very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Baver is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Allison Baver will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Baver's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Allison Baver appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Baver is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Allison possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Allison Baver - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Allison Baver does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Allison.
Others see Allison Baver as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Baver shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Allison Baver usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Her emotional instincts, feelings, and intuition play a big part in the decisions Allison Baver makes and how she interacts with the world, and generally her feelings are quite accurate and helpful to her. Also, establishing emotional rapport with the people she meets on a day to day level is rather easy for Baver. Allison Baver appears somewhat sympathetic and concerned, so that others are drawn to her, especially when they need guidance or help.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
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