challenges and difficulties
Faye either overvalues or undervalues her possessions and assets. She can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Alice Faye may deny herself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of her labors. She may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Alice Faye feels that she does not have "enough" to make her feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) she has!
Her childhood or her relationship with her parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Alice from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Alice Faye feels that she was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether she actually was or not. Her early life - at least as Faye remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of her needs and feelings. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Alice Faye needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Alice accomplish this task.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Alice Faye instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Alice Faye needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Alice Faye - so much so that she seeks them out at her own expense. When she is under stress, Faye tends to look outside herself for approval or answers, and she leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge her own path through life is a key factor in her self-development.
Alice Faye is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about her intentions or desires, and she can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Faye's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Alice Faye needs to cultivate her ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on her own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Alice Faye is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Faye's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support Alice Faye in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Faye, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Alice Faye has to learn to communicate and express herself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Alice to study, learn skills and develop her intellectual interests and capacities. Faye needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing her intellectual reasoning ability. Alice Faye should practice using her mind, her thinking skills and her ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for her.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Alice Faye to pursue.
She needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). Alice Faye has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. She needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. Alice Faye has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating her ability to love and to receive love.
Faye is a good team worker and has the ability to lead others. Her relationships and associations with others tend to be harmonious and cooperative. Alice Faye may also have a very industrious family and she tends to be strongly attached to them.
Alice should take extra care in her relationships with people, for she could easily end up in the wrong crowd. Alice Faye could be the victim of fraud and falsehood or through association may become an accessory to malicious action.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 4th house
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Venus
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Asc.
N. Node Conjunct Neptune/Asc.