Alessandro Pizzamiglio (Bono)
challenges and difficulties
Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio often has a sense of longing or homesickness for something he cannot name or specify, and he may have both: great attraction toward, and fear of, mysticism and parapsychology.
Overcoming feelings of fear, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, or oversensitivity is an important task for Alessandro Pizzamiglio.
His childhood or his relationships with his parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Bono from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio felt deprived in some manner, whether or not he actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of his needs and feelings may typify his early life, at least as Alessandro Pizzamiglio remembers it. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Bono accomplish this.
Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio seesaws between playing it safe, and doing something unique and original, between self-control and letting loose, between being a responsible adult and a rebellious adolescent, between what Bono has to or should do and what his spontaneous impulses tell him to do. All of this creates enormous inner tension as well as friction with people in his environment. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio may, for instance, bitterly resent government or authority figures who "crush his individuality", yet ignore his obligations and responsibilities, thus ensuring that they will pursue him. Learning to give each side its due is an ongoing challenge for Alessandro Pizzamiglio.
Basically shy, Alessandro Pizzamiglio tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing his love for someone. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but he is also inclined to torment himself because of a seeming lack of affection.
He is inclined to feel inferior and may easily be taken in by others. Bono has to guard against being deceived or used by others, though his intentions may be good. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio must not let his desire to have things cloud his ability to see what is really happening.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio's growth. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in fostering a personal vision or philosophy of life, whether through religious or philosophical studies, education or the wisdom of distant lands or cultures that Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio needs to cultivate the qualities described above in this endeavor. Long distance communication and involvement with foreigners is likely to be significant to Alessandro Pizzamiglio.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Pisces
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Opposition Uranus
Saturn Opposition Venus/Neptune
Saturn Opposition Mars/Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 9th house