Alessandro Pizzamiglio (Bono)
approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Bono's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Bono a little better. This page describes the disguise Alessandro Pizzamiglio wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Bono has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Alessandro Pizzamiglio is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Alessandro Pizzamiglio's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Alessandro Pizzamiglio is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Bono possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Bono.
Others see Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Alessandro Pizzamiglio shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Despite the fact that his core self is quite a bit different from the face the world generally sees, Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio has a strong desire to be seen and recognized, to be acknowledged, and to have a significant influence on people in his environment. He may do remarkable things in order to be noticed. However, Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio often does not get the full recognition he wishes for.
Bono has an appealing physical appearance and this, along with his winning ways, is apt to make him a favorite in his immediate environment. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio is the "easy" one, and he knows how to please others. However, Alessandro Pizzamiglio must not take his personal charm for granted, because he may also seem vain or too needy for approval.
He is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio is or what he wants - he is pretty much up front. Bono radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when he is at his best. He seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
His emotional instincts, feelings, and intuition play a big part in the decisions Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio makes and how he interacts with the world, and generally his feelings are quite accurate and helpful to him. Also, establishing emotional rapport with the people he meets on a day to day level is rather easy for Alessandro Pizzamiglio. Alessandro (Bono) Pizzamiglio appears somewhat sympathetic and concerned, so that others are drawn to him, especially when they need guidance or help.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Square Asc.
Venus Trine Asc.
Mars Trine Asc.
Moon Sextile Asc.