Alan Bilzerian
in Relationships

Alan does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Alan Bilzerian would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Alan Bilzerian avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Bilzerian. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Alan Bilzerian has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Alan sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Alan Bilzerian is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Alan cannot hide his emotions.

Alan Bilzerian feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Alan may not realize how competitive he is.

Although Alan Bilzerian was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Alan's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Alan does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Alan Bilzerian is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Alan Bilzerian gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Alan Bilzerian may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Alan feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Alan Bilzerian idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Alan Bilzerian very happy. Alan wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Alan Bilzerian may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Bilzerian is a natural host or diplomat.

His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Alan Bilzerian possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Alan may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Alan Bilzerian may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Alan's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Alan Bilzerian is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Bilzerian is to being left out or unappreciated.

He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Alan Bilzerian rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Alan is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Bilzerian craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Alan Bilzerian needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 1st house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Square Neptune

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 10th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Square Saturn