challenges and difficulties
Aaron Spelling takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Aaron enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Aaron Spelling also fears entrapment in close relationships.
He is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Aaron Spelling tries to be strictly accurate and he is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. Spelling withholds his thoughts and opinions until he has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Aaron's silence discomforts others.
His mental concentration is very good but his breadth of understanding may not be.
The side of Aaron Spelling that wants and needs structure, order, stability, and a disciplined way of life is at odds with his urges for unfettered freedom, change, excitement, and discovery. There is apt to be much discontent, inner stress, and tension due to this, and at times Aaron finds it hard to relax. Aaron Spelling may act out in a rebellious way now and then, or clamp down hard on himself, in an attempt to strictly control his "wild" impulses. Spelling's task is to try to find a reasonable balance between order and creative chaos in his life.
Aaron dislikes tense or frustrating situations and has a strong desire to free himself from them. Acting quickly at times, Aaron suddenly overcomes his inner inhibitions. Aaron Spelling also has the ability to grasp difficult situations correctly and to use them for his advancement.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Aaron Spelling instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Aaron Spelling needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
His natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing his situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing his situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Aaron Spelling copes with stress. Aaron Spelling also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
His development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Aaron Spelling to function more efficiently in the world. Finding a way to be of practical service is also important.
It is in his dealings with money, financial security, tangible assets and possessions that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above are ones Aaron Spelling needs to integrate in tangible ways: how he makes a living, building assets and a secure material base, what he does with the resources he has. Aaron Spelling should try to avoid over involvement or entanglements with other people's money matters, legal business, and personal affairs.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Aaron Spelling back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Aaron Spelling seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
His feelings are heightened when he is with others and Aaron Spelling has the ability to open up to them and show his feeling without reservation. Lead by his instincts, Aaron is likely to have many spontaneous relationships with other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Quincunx Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Uranus
N. Node in Virgo
N. Node in 2nd house
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Opposition Venus/Uranus