Aaron Spelling
in Relationships
Aaron Spelling responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Spelling often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Aaron Spelling must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Aaron's need for times of withdrawal.
Aaron Spelling is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Aaron Spelling takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Aaron, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Aaron Spelling frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Spelling identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Aaron Spelling often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Aaron Spelling as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Aaron Spelling often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Spelling actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Aaron Spelling to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Aaron Spelling becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Spelling can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Aaron's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Aaron Spelling craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Spelling rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Aaron Spelling craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Spelling also loves to feel free and unfettered.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Aaron Spelling seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Aaron has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Spelling can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Aaron Spelling gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Aaron Spelling may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Aaron feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Aaron Spelling idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Aaron Spelling craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Aaron loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Spelling.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 12th house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 8th house
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