Zooey Deschanel in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Zooey Deschanel denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Zooey Deschanel needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Zooey Deschanel also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Zooey Deschanel may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Deschanel has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Zooey Deschanel wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Zooey is restless and something of a wanderer.
Zooey Deschanel has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Deschanel would react more intensely. Zooey is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.
In addition to Zooey's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Zooey Deschanel craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Deschanel rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Zooey Deschanel does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Deschanel tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and her relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Zooey Deschanel enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
Zooey has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Zooey Deschanel has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Zooey Deschanel undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
She is warm and affectionate in her relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around her. Zooey Deschanel is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.
Deschanel instinctively knows her mission in life. She is satisfied knowing inside herself what she can do and she does not feel the need to be dependent on anyone. But Zooey Deschanel is also sensitive to others' needs and has a strong desire to spend time with her loved ones.
Her thinking is dictated by her feelings and Deschanel may rely on her intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. Her advice may often be sought and heeded, because Zooey Deschanel seems to know and understand what motivates others.
Zooey Deschanel has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Zooey looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Zooey Deschanel must learn to deal with her extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Zooey Deschanel gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Zooey Deschanel may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Zooey feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Zooey Deschanel idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Deschanel is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Zooey Deschanel thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Zooey Deschanel tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool herself at times. Her desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and she may tries to hide her deception from others as well as from herself.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 9th house
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Sextile Uranus
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Moon Conjunct Sun/MC
Moon Conjunct Mercury/MC
Moon Conjunct Venus/Neptune
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
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