challenges and difficulties
Gasparetto both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Zibia, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Zibia Gasparetto is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Gasparetto.
Zibia Gasparetto takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Gasparetto a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Zibia Gasparetto and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Gasparetto will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Zibia has an inner conflict between idealism, hope, and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. Zibia Gasparetto needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Gasparetto will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Zibia Gasparetto strives and struggles a great deal with her ideals or spiritual aspirations. She may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or she may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, she can never quite divorce herself from her idealistic concerns.
Zibia tries to keeps her sensuality under control and is likely to suppress the tension she feels in her love relationships. At times she could feel somewhat emotionally inhibited, while at other times Zibia Gasparetto may have a strong wish to break all moral barriers.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Zibia Gasparetto instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Zibia Gasparetto needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Zibia Gasparetto is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Zibia Gasparetto's growth. Zibia Gasparetto needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Zibia Gasparetto is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Gasparetto's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support Zibia Gasparetto in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Gasparetto, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Zibia Gasparetto's path to wholeness involves confronting her dark and hidden recesses, bringing them out into the open, and transforming herself in the process. Healing abilities develop as a result of Gasparetto's willingness to experience and transform deep emotions such as grief, anger, and pain. Furthermore, bringing light to the darkness and pain in the world without becoming overwhelmed by it is a significant challenge for Zibia.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Opposition Venus/Uranus
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Pluto