William Quan Judge
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, William Quan Judge rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Judge's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Judge may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes William difficult to live with. William Quan Judge needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
William Quan Judge has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Judge also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For William, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as William Quan Judge is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". William has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for William - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
William Quan Judge takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. William Quan Judge actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.
William has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to William Quan Judge and he may have an early desire for marriage.
He is highly sensitive to everyone around him and is subject to strange moods or feelings. William Quan Judge has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Judge to keep his expectations a bit lower.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, William Quan Judge gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, William Quan Judge may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone William feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. William Quan Judge idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
William Quan Judge often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to William. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. William Quan Judge may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for William Quan Judge - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. William Quan Judge yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Judge frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, William Quan Judge does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
His attitude is positive and harmonious and William Quan Judge impresses others as a very caring individual. He is very friendly and pleasant when he is with other people and knows how to make himself popular. He is likely to have a very happy family life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 6th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Opposition Mars
Moon Opposition Venus/Mars
Moon Opposition Mars/Neptune
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 12th house
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Opposition Jupiter/N. Node
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