challenges and difficulties
Clark fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Wesley Clark may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Wesley.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Wesley. He strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for him.
On another level entirely, Wesley Clark is very careful about joining forces, and especially his material resources, with others. Clark wants to keep his own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Wesley Clark strives and struggles a great deal with his ideals or spiritual aspirations. He may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or he may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, he can never quite divorce himself from his idealistic concerns.
Wesley Clark tends to be very sensitive to his surroundings and is strongly influenced by the prevailing conditions around him. Wesley may feels that he has more obligations than he can properly handle, and that it is hopeless to even try.
Somewhat shy, Wesley finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Wesley Clark to establish relationships, he would rather be by himself. Wesley likes everything simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Wesley Clark instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Wesley Clark needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Wesley Clark is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Wesley Clark's growth. Wesley Clark needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Wesley Clark has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Clark will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
Wesley has an extremely magnetic personality along with strong sexual attraction. Wesley Clark tends to put his heart and soul into his work and may prefer to work with partners of the opposite sex.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 8th house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Neptune
Saturn Opposition Venus/Asc.
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Opposition Venus/Mars