Vivian Canoletti
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Vivian should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Canoletti often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Canoletti's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Vivian Canoletti insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Vivian does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Vivian Canoletti feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Canoletti works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Vivian, and she may invest more of her emotional energy into her career or public life than in her private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Vivian Canoletti tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Vivian Canoletti becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Canoletti gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Vivian Canoletti to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Canoletti can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Vivian Canoletti puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Canoletti may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Vivian Canoletti might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

Her emotional needs are very important to Vivian Canoletti and she tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in her immediate world. Canoletti will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to her.

She is likely to be noted for her good looks and good taste in clothes. Vivian Canoletti is able to attract and influence others because she is so pleasant and so sincere in her approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Canoletti also is strongly attached to her home and family.

In love relationships, Vivian Canoletti seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Vivian, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Vivian Canoletti supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Vivian that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Vivian Canoletti is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Vivian Canoletti craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Vivian loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Canoletti.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 10th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 8th house