Victor Mature in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Victor Mature only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Mature.
Victor has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Victor Mature has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Victor Mature to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Victor Mature has a great deal of emotional depth.
Victor Mature has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Mature also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Victor, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Mature is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Victor Mature needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Victor Mature gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Victor Mature may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Victor feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Victor Mature idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Mature is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Victor Mature thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Victor Mature to be able to deeply respect his partner. Victor looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Victor Mature is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.
Sensitive and compassionate, Mature tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Victor has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Victor is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Victor Mature experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Victor Mature has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Victor Mature can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 6th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 11th house
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
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