challenges and difficulties
Vendela has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave her feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with her peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Kirsebom.
Kirsebom is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Vendela Kirsebom does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Vendela Kirsebom better than being with groups of her own peers.
Vendela Kirsebom strives and struggles a great deal with her ideals or spiritual aspirations. She may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or she may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, she can never quite divorce herself from her idealistic concerns.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Vendela Kirsebom instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Vendela Kirsebom needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Vendela Kirsebom is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Vendela Kirsebom's growth. Vendela Kirsebom needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Vendela Kirsebom is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Kirsebom's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
Kirsebom cooperates with others in a vigorous and energetic way. Her motto seems to be "one for all and all for one", and she feels strongly connected with others. In fact, Vendela Kirsebom looks upon other people as necessary for a worthwhile life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Square Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mars