Vanessa Williams in Relationships
Open and generous, Vanessa Williams enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Williams rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Vanessa always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Vanessa Williams often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Williams, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Vanessa Williams to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Vanessa's aspirations and ideals. Vanessa Williams also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Vanessa Williams has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Williams also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Vanessa, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Vanessa Williams has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Vanessa out for help, sympathy or advice. Vanessa Williams is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Vanessa Williams craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Williams also loves to feel free and unfettered.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Vanessa Williams values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Vanessa desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Williams, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Vanessa Williams appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Vanessa Williams craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Vanessa loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Williams.
Intimacy does not come easily to Vanessa Williams and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Williams does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Vanessa Williams needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
Vanessa Williams has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Vanessa frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Williams can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Williams' love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 6th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Trine Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Square Neptune
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