Queen Latifah
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in her relationships, Queen Latifah inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in her loved ones. This is good, since she would never settle for anything less! Queen Latifah wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty she feels she is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Dana Owens lavishes on those she cares about. Queen Latifah has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt her feelings is to ignore her. She is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Queen Latifah hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Queen Latifah has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Queen Latifah may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Dana Owens' tie to her mother is very strong and Queen Latifah also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members as well.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Queen Latifah tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Queen Latifah becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Queen Latifah feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Queen Latifah also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

Queen Latifah has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Queen Latifah out for help, sympathy or advice. Queen Latifah is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

Although Dana Owens gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Queen Latifah to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

There is another side to Queen Latifah as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Queen Latifah often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Dana Owens actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Queen Latifah to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Queen Latifah becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Dana Owens can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In addition to Queen Latifah's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Queen Latifah craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Dana Owens rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Queen Latifah does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Dana Owens tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and her relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Queen Latifah enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

She is very intuitive and has the ability to make the right decisions guided by her inner feelings. Queen Latifah has a sense of honor and pride and is considerate of others. Others respect Dana Owens and are willing to help her, because she does not act out of petty motives.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Queen Latifah enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Queen Latifah wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Queen Latifah often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Queen Latifah. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Queen Latifah may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Queen Latifah - having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.

Queen Latifah is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Queen Latifah is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Queen Latifah professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Dana Owens a lot of breathing space.

Queen Latifah likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, Queen Latifah seems to be real content and happy only when she is among other people.

It is hard for Queen Latifah to express her feelings and emotions to other people. She may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Queen Latifah tends to feel lonely, even when she is in the company of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 4th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon Trine Venus

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Conjunct Mars/Jupiter

Venus in Aries

Venus in 12th house

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mars/N. Node

Venus Conjunct Saturn/N. Node